We rushed to the hospitals but they were closed. Discuss with the Vet. I went there with a tiny bit of apple along with raspberries that was Lollys favourite. Accidents happen but it's still sad when you care about them. We grieve differently. Surely hed still be alive if I hadnt. PLEASE HELP! I accidentally killed my cat! - Loss of a Pet - Grief I told her I can easily observe her for improvement. We moved about 2 weeks ago and both my wife and I were stressed out about it all the time, so I didnt give him much out time like I used to; maybe a total of 1 or 1 1/2 hours a day tops, and even then he would spend a chunk of that sleeping somewhere. And don't get another dog. I screamed for my husband who came out and held her. . Depending on the manner of killing you can interpret . The last time I went in her cage she looked okay but not great. She lectures in rabbit surgery at the Royal Veterinary College in London. Im spending more times with my other two cats while comforting them. I know it's been some time, and we also currently have another springer that we love to bits - he's next to me right now, but I just still feel so guilty for killing my poor dog. I decided to lie in bed and put her on my chest and comfort her as best I could until she passed. I became frightened for myself and felt agony for her suffering. I wish I had saved you. Due to this I felt it best we left it open to avoid her being stuck outside without the option to let herself in. But hed been losing weight in the autumn and I should have noticed, not put it down to his stress issues in the past. It's been 5 years since he died. It doesn't seem like "oh I get mad soemtimes"; but more like "I have a literally problem with my brain, or whatever, and it makes me unable to control my anger.". If someone else had suggested to go on a walk with him that day, if your mom had decided to let him off the leash instead of you, if another car had come up behind you and hadn't seen your dog, if, if, if it all still might have happened exactly the same way. I thought if this was hypoglycemia the sugar would help. Bella's having it pretty sweet right now. I knew I couldnt keep them so I started searching for homes. I continued with rescue breathing. She threw up blood everywhere. Mum had an accident and has been in hospital with a broken hip, so Id been taking care of Muffin. My goal was to rehabilitate the little bird to go back outside (I had asked my mom to take her to a specialist but it was a four hour drive she didnt want to make and I cant drive yet.) I said shed had plenty to eat. That was my fault. A man who was shot by his dog in a tragic hunting accident was identified as Kansas plumber Joseph Smith on Tuesday as friends remembered the hunter as a "loving goofball" who made them . Nov 2, 2013 at 0:43. I adopted my sweet baby boy Cerberus at 3 months old. Or perhaps they knew something i didnt, so I continued waiting. I dont hit my dogs , yet , since theyre not very trained, I yell at them when they are doing something stupid. Their lives become so interwoven with our own, it would take more than an archangel to detangle them.. I try to apologize to him but I notice that his head was fixed at his left side , so i think I may have broke something. I interviewed veterinarians, grief counselors, and pet experts for the best ways to survive the death of a beloved dog or cat, and I included stories from real pet owners who coped with guilt and grief in sometimes surprising ways. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. We just lost our 13 year old Yorkie and we thought we would start the new year with a new addition to the family. So he ate a big scoop of baker,'s chocolate.i didnt know that chocolate is bad for dogs and can prove fatal also. I shouldnt have taken him out. I usually order bird biotic and keep in on hand but with covid, it has been impossible to get bird biotics. But, if you hit a dog, you have to stop. The Animal Legal Defense Fund is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. I put him in a box and took him home. Upon review of my vet visit from last year I realized that the findings the doctor reported to me did not match what she told me. It hurts so much more that I dont even know exactly when she died and I couldnt find her in her usual state. All i can think of is i killed my baby. He immediately turned to run back to me, our eyes connected just before he got slammed by the bus. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Shes Mums dog, but we are so close. I knew something was wrong. She then began to have spasms of her extremities. After the recording I removed . There had to be drafts coming from every where! I told the story to the Vet after his death and she told me l, my cat died within 2days of sick and probably he may have eaten some poison. There was one part of the road in the neighborhood that I was hesitant to enter as there were unpleasant people living there so I would only quickly scan the area for my Sofie bird. i put him in the new cage i had bought for him, which i didnt use because i didnt feel right having him caged up all day, and i dragged the cage to the balcony and left him out there while i cleaned up. Ive always said her and Mum are who I love the most. I was not allowed to go inside due to Covid. If this helps anyone cope than Ill be happy please rest in love my Sophie birdie. Shes 11 years old and i feel so useless i should have done it earlier i feel like i did not do anything for her im so dumb i cant stop crying im tired of crying day and night but i cant help myself to cry the pain in my chest was unbearable i cant stop blaming myself for what happened. One day at a time. I had been watching him in the mirror, and then I didn't see him any more. My husband ran over our 2-year-old dog yesterday. Brutally killing a pet (puppy?) Short answer: cover your entire hand in a light coating of peanut butter and offer it up to your dog. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. To clarify the reason Im so worried about his sister dying of grief is because my grandmother had three cats. I intended to take her to the vet soon regarding the legs and for thyroid re-check since her appetite was increasing. She saw the vet every year. He laid by my feet and i know he shouldnt have been but he was calming down. I cannot describe the horror of what Im feeling. Anyone reading this Im here to grieve, and to give my story because yours have helped me. We didnt want him to lose our homes scent, but he grew more agitated and restless. I just miss my baby. You are going to save that dog from euthanasia. I thought that because I didnt know, and I didnt know because I didnt ask. Our other cat (the one whose died) is more of an outdoor cat and very self reliant with a strong hunter instinct. he was the cutest. We arrived home and she ate and drank. Sorry. On my way to the bedroom I felt her go limp. So I hurried up and put one of the meds in his mouth and waited, then called the vet and she said that it doesnt sound like seizures its sounds like something else but she said to watch him. She had done well with this. Im a truck drivera rookie. How to Deal with a Child Who Accidentally Caused a Pet's Death Realizing shes fine here and there without food and water. Looking into this, its linked to diet, exercise and stress. Ive had an unhealthy attachment to her for so long and have felt so guilty not being around her for a while. He died because of me. But its a horrible feeling. She gave me the number of a hospital 90 mins away. What I notice was that both of them were trying to rape / compete for sex with the female puppy , they were fighting eachother and when I saw that I got really mad. Some were directly responsible for accidentally causing their dogs to die, while others feel like they put their dogs to sleep too soon. My friend said take Honey home for the night. ! Talking and writing about it is healthier than ignoring it, and can help you process your grief. I left the apple outside the entrance. After one hour she lost her breath she died im so dumb i should have taken her to the vet earlier i should have taken an appointment to the vet the day i found out she lost her appetite so that the next day i can bring her to the vet . I knew this was a very bad sign. Coping with a pet's accidental death - The Washington Post How did you love and take care of your pet? The following taboo topic article might surprise some, but I assure you that dogs killing dogs within the same household is common. The vet seemed satisfied. Your email address will not be published. Your dog or cat loved you beyond all reason so you must have donesomethingright. He also was prone to disappearing for days at a time, sometimes more than a week. Hes with me for 7 months i still remember the day i got him he was a cute kitten but was very afraid slowly he learned his name and so many things Id everything to keep him well. but the guilt kept eating me up as I KNEW she wasnt ready yet. Please just get help. I had a basket full of clean clothes that had been sitting crumpled up for a couple days. Be kind to yourselves. I wouldn't move him and stayed in the car with him. Muffin is on two kinds of medication for her heart and I think I took on too big of walks during the day. It was still a baby. I was a bit annoyed about it because I felt like this was quite pressing, but maybe she improved? But as I said, Cleo had always managed it and as for Bella she would always wait to be let in or out as she was always so patient. We immediately stopped and there he was - it was like nothing happened. She needed an companion that she could cuddle alot. He was a member of the family; we'd had him since he was a puppy and he never spent a moment without us - from the moment he woke up till we slept, he was by our side. I know that my grief and pain is causing my husband and children more pain than theyre already experiencing so I know that I need to find a path forward bc I dont want that for them. A 65-year-old Alabama man was killed Tuesday monring after being attacked by dogs. I did a similar thing when I was learning to drive. And definitely don't get another dog yet! [AMZN] Jeff Bezos Joined 15/09/2018 Posts 80,103 06:24 PM 25/06/2019 Im truly sorry for those of you who are experiencing the same level of grief, blame, anger, guilt and sadness that I am. Traumatization #fyp #foryou #arab #arabic #storytime #grwm #makeup #hi Her first year or two of life was full of adventure and love. That little dog trusted me to look after her and i let her down so so badly. I walked around the house calling her to no avail. You have probably never heard of this phenomenon because people rarely talk about the situation. What Happens When Someone Injures or Kills Your Pet - Aaron Herbert I feel I could have prevented it. I looked and saw something in there. The day before she died she was very active and verbal, wanting even more affection than usual. I wanted so much to save her and give her all the love she hadnt had until the day I found her. After 2 weeks of him being gone, we were a little more worried, but this was still semi normal so we werent too upset about it. I will miss her for a long long time and this will be hard for me to live with. My cuddle bug. Her eyes were fixed open, her jaw clenched, front limbs fixed straight, back limbs running movement. This loss of control is a very painful but real part of life. But bless her heart she was such a good cat, always letting Cleo eat before her and so patient and would do all her business outside and never craze for anything. I feel like I was neglectful of her and took her for granted. We brought home a little Angel teacup Yorkie. Do you feel like you caused your dog or cats death? Two people are responsible for my cats death, the veterinarian and as a result of her incompetence subsequently myself. I didnt know what to do stayed until my husband come. i kicked the $#%^ out of him a couple times and i beat him in his head as well. I was tired from work and lazy, and my wife has depression and was going through an especially rough episode, so we both just sat around thinking or saying we should walk and call for him, put flyers up, etc, but doing nothing about it. I feel like I killed my dog and I miss her so much she was so unique so free spirited and she adored me she loved sleeping with me but she was dirty so for the last week I didnt let her in my bed I feel like a horrible person how I was with her I feel like I didnt take good care of her and she did its my fault for hanging out with friends instead of taking care of her. This was no issue for me. The Smritis give us penances for all sorts of sins committed.Some even give you penances for accidentally killing animals.But many of these penances will look outdated or at least will be difficult to perform for someone living in this age. I felt awful. My 13 year old best friend was put down today. I said sorry to Lolly out loud, for so many things. She said she put him under the covers while he was going through his episode but she said thats how he likes to sleep, Im thinking to myself if he was panting it he probably was hyperventilating and if the actual condition didnt kill him then maybe he suffocated under the blanket because I couldnt move even if he wanted to because his front legs were paralyzed. I am not much a dog person at all, but cat lover instead. I'm so sorry to hear that. Theres a reason why animal cruelty is treated as a gateway into really criminally violent behavior towards humans, you know? I miss you . She follows me everywhere and if I'm in bed, she will meow obnoxiously until she can snuggle up on top of or around me. I know that supervision is the answer for future contact with the rest of our pets, but I want to know how to deal with the fact that she actually killed something, even though it was (I hope) an accident. With her age and the recovery it would have taken to get her back to a semi normal state, we decided it wasnt fair to put her through that and chose to end her life and suffering. The topics discussed include practical . He was my baby. During the ordeal I made several phone calls. He didn't say anything, but I think he knew. "What a deal!" you think, as you lift him into the back seat. Most laws specifically discuss dog bites and animal cruelty, but few outline clear remedies available to pet owners who suffer a loss. So, no chance of killing one And even if I did have a pet, I don't reckon I would do something like this with a fellow being..!! I held her in my arms and petted her head while it was done. Unfortunately, I misjudge how well integration was going, and 72 hours ago, our little kitty wandered to close while our older dog was eating and he snapped. I run 2 businesses and I feel I have not taken the needed time to love on this absolutely sweet dog God gave meand 2 days ago I was running a fever of 102 up til today. The anger, guilt and sadness feels like it will consume me at times. It happened in a split second. He was such a sweet dog he was still wagging his tail in his last moments, laying in a stream of blood. I'm so sorry for your loss. She was trying to tell me what the problem was by stepping in the water with her feet. Please get help and don't get a dog at least not for now. Your dog and what dogs embody would want you to get through this. Eventually another highway patrol officer showed up and they again tried lifting the seat off. I am trying to get through this feeling so bad for him in his final hours when nobody was around and I dont know what to do with that haunting thought. Talk about how you feel, keep writing all the pain and memories out of you. I never done anything to him after getting sober but I still did what i did in the past. I was begging her not to leave me, mind you, and when I saw she was lucid I sung her favorite song to her. But Im not that that stupid I know I should have or could have acted quicker. My heart breaks for you. I would probably have killed myself, the pain is so bad. Please take a moment to read it its the comments on this article that inspired me to write it. They told us she was dehydrated and her heart rate was very low. You were annoying little Chihuahua but you were only 8 You had so much more love and life to give!!! His Wife Accidentally Killed His Dog. Should He End the Marriage? On the way, I started to smell iron - like rust, and I knew it was blood. Poor poor Lamont. . I was in between a coffee table and the sofa she must of been coming up behind me about to bite them. We waited all evening and night and found out she fractured her pelvis in three spots that required extensive surgery. My mum and sister were on the phone and they told me to let her go. It was sunday , afternoon , I have 5 dogs , Im stupid. I know its unhealthy and that blaming myself isnt going to move me forward in my grief but it doesnt feel fair for me to forgive myself and move on. Not recognizing that your Yorkie, cockapoo, or Siamese cat was ill doesnt mean that you werent paying attention or taking good care of him or her! Get another dog, yeah, and show that dog the kind of love you showed to Bella. Animals cant always communicate their physical health;pet ownerscant see inside their bodies and brains. I lied to my family and made them pay more than 1000$ in treatment for him till this day , and it seems itll be more if we want him to walk properly again. "Labradors, however, might down the entire bucket." But still somehow I didnt live up to my plans for her. My heart is broken. I think he was in shock. So many regrets, and so many opportunities to change the outcome. The minute it stopped entertaining you you didnt care if it died. Everyone is telling me not to blame myself, that it was an accident. The vet said now its up to her, but the likelihood of brain damage was very high. I feel so much guilt that i killed him and Im so so sorry for everything. We didnt have a personal vehicle , my phone also off. Lolly had gone into cardiac arrest as soon as they anaesthetised her. We didnt want any more pain for her so we let her go . I said goodbye. 4. She explained my Buttercup had new onset diabetes with a sugar of 330 and hypertension. What If the Pain of Pet Loss Becomes Too Much to Bear? We rushed to the vet but it was too late. I found her decomposing. Is Vetoryl Safe for Dogs? 2023 Bestie Paws Hospital She had a long day and I felt she probably needed rest. By [consciously] killing a frog, mongoose, crow, cat, boar, mouse or a dog, a twice-born person . I screamed the neighbourhood down. I loved her so much. My mom took in a baby bird that was removed from her nest because some people chopped down the tree she was in. 1. I needed to get a creep away he kept coming to my house and throwing rocks at window or banging on the door, my neighbors complained too. Shes so amazing. Im afraid he hates me for not trying harder cause there was so many things I could and should have done. I loaded her in the carrier and had to drop her off. It was not until I requested her records after the fact that I realized she had severe hypertension that day. I'm so sorry that happened to you guys. I wish I could go back in time. My dog had lost a few ounces but his blood work showed that his kidney and pancreatic levels were . my dog was dead. She heart a 1/6 heart murmur but said thats not unusual for her with the hyperthyroidism. ive had deep anger issues and a whole lot of other problems, which ive kept bottled inside of me. I really appreciate this article. I am here today because my sweet kitten Zoe died today. That's the most inspirational thing I have read all day. Tiny was a male housecat, 9 yrs old, neutered, with a very tiny little white patch on his chest. I wanted to end her suffering. As I buried my face in his thick, furry . It was a horrific sight. So I massaged his front legs and kisses him tried to get him to relax and it wasnt working, he just kept panting and kicking his back legs. Today I could just see that something was off. Either way i still feel the blame comes back to me What if I wouldve taken him to the vet? She said I would have to administer insulin and hypertension meds daily. And she is more of a house cat. The day before yesterday, I noticed she was stepping in her water and getting in the litter box. We named her Emie. She was going deaf and could have been already lying on the driveway. I have had brushed or showred or havent had my lunch. Sleep tight Lollybun, Special Girl, Special Rabbit, Lollybum, Lollybumby. i buried him that same night out of love and respect but still man, im so wrong. So we got the pig in july I got a cage and food and waterI taught my kid how to handle it so I didnt have to be bothered. i would never beat him just because and i never came home looking to beat him but this anger inside of me, thats been there for 7 years, would always come out and i wouldnt realize what ive done till after ive done it. I dropped to the floor there, covered in my little baby's blood and just sobbed. What should I do? Last month I was going through a hard time at work and personally and I neglected her care. when i went to go check on him some time later, he was dead. No big deal, business as usual really. The doc also said that it would be a very long and expensive road to try to get her well (including the severe wound on her face) and that even then her prognosis was considered guarded at best. I carried him to the home and tried to feed but he refused. You killed him over something he didn't do. he was only trying to use We had him for about a year before he became very sick while we were out of town. I usually replace his water and give him vitamin paste before I go to work too, but I didnt even do that. 3.1K. Well getting the seat off wasnt the problem. When I walked in the door I found it odd that my other cat was sitting up at the edge of the couch nearest the door as though hed been waiting. 849 votes, 650 comments. Shes always crazing to come indoors after short spells outside. that's what happens to dogs that die, regardless of the kind of dogs they were. A Vetoryl overdose can cause a dog to become lethargic, vomit, and seizure. There are several factors that could have contributed to it, and there is no way to prove that one thing caused another unless an autopsy was performed1. My hamster was missing for 24 hours Usually when she gets free, she always comes back a few hours later. I caressed his little head for the last time, scratching his ear as I often did, and then I shoveled the cold earth over my tiny dude, my buddy weasel bear. Itll help you deal with guilt when you caused your pets death. I asked if I could pick her up right before closing (totally assuming they would treat the sugar and hypertension with the extra time while having some time to observe). Dreaming that this never happened and that wed still be together in 15-20 years. Reply. That was over 12 years ago, and I still feel guilty! Definitely get help!!! I had to kill my cat. We've had two rabbits, two guinea pigs, a bearded dragon, two dogs, plenty of fish, snails, two geckos, and four tortoises. But, I didnt. 12. However, at 4.15 Single Dot started to breath heavily After vomiting and I called my husband to go to the vet. she then flew to another tree higher and then another even higher. Remember that its normal to feel guiltywhen your dog or cat dies. Fiance (29M) accidentally killed my dog everyone thinks I'm being In these dogs, ivermectin can pass directly to the brain and be toxic or even lethal. Can I Sue if My Pet Is Killed or Hurt? | Nolo All I know is he fell down. She was refusing food yesterday and it was hard giving her medication properly. I Accidentally Killed Our Family Pet - Tinybeans Thank you. Maybe that will sink in enough for you to realize the urgency with which you need serious help. Hi Everyone, I saw a posting about this several months ago but I can't seem to find it. "Some dog breeds like Pomeranians will turn their nose up at bleach after tasting it," Hovda says. Where was his daddy when he needed him? (Gary Coronado / Los Angeles Times) 5 / 9 But then my cat died and now my hamster is gone and its my fault for not making sure the fort was secure, the pump was covered, and I wasnt there to save her. Dogs most commonly experience nausea, upset stomach, and diarrhea after taking fish oil. And you should feel bad and you should get help for yourself so you never do anything like that again. Goodbye, Friend: Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Ever Lost a Petis the number one bestselling book on pet loss and grief on Amazon. Identify imagined guiltabout theloss of your dog or cat. Im joining you guys today because I feel responsible for my moms dogs death He was having weird episodes he had 2 of them prior to the one last night, I took him to the vet the first 2 times and they originally said they think there was something wrong with his brain and was thinking some type of seizures. I stupidly placed her on the LIVING ROOM floor. Doofus Doggie Gets Head Stuck In Treat Box - msn.com Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. Occurred on February 14, 2023 / Canada: "I came into my kitchen and found my dog with his head stuck in his treat box. Please please be careful with your pets. so i would whip his ass, sometimes going to far and really hurting him. I cant live with myself in this severe pain. Shortly after she arrived, I came down with Covid. The necrposy showed severe heart disease and thyroid hyperplasia and adenomas, moderate kidney disease, vascular changes and lung damage consistent with hypertension. The only difference is we have no consequences from most of our mi. Only one day, he caught up to us, and I felt it before I realised what had happened - I felt the car drive over a bump. I couldnt catch him. In the summer months, slugs come out and bait is used to kill them. I just lost my Tiny, and it was my fault, in multiple ways. Well I did that for months but then a lot of stuff happened in between time and I slacked on and off. My poor 7yr old daughter found her best friend dead.